Come one, come all! Are you 30 years old or younger and looking for a discrete way into the bdsm-community? Then you have come to the right place. Here you can meet other people who share your interest in bdsm without having to pay entrance fees or wear special clothes. We discuss not only about BDSM related subjects but everything between heaven and earth over a nice cup of tea or coffee. Which makes this a perfect place for making new friends who share your interests and hobbies.

Since we are at a regular coffee shop you might want to leave your most obscene outfit at home, there are better places to live out your kinks than at these meetups.

Also keep in mind that we are not a homogeneous group as one might think. People have different backgrounds, some might not want to get hugged or even touched by just anyone. Stranger are stranger - get to know them appropriately.
By the same standards one should keep in mind how you discuss certain topics and what you joke about so no one has to feel discouraged. Everyone should feel welcome at the fika (Of course this pertains to you as well, if something is worrying you please talk to who is in charge :) ).
You are always welcome to just sit by and listen if you feel like, or have lenghty discussions over a hot brew or anything you might feel like.

This Monday we are at Café Dox (former Café Mineur) and we hope to be able to be at the room in the far back of their basement. Be on the lookout though since the location might change depending on availability and such. Feel free to write if you have any recomendations for other places or if you happen to find out the current one is closed for some reason.
If the location changes for a fika that is already in the calender a message will be sent to anyone who is "participating" or "might participate" on the event. Check the comments on specific events to keep up to date.
NOTE: There are dogs at Dox. They are very calm, but if you are afraid of dogs let us know before hand. People attending the fika sometimes bring their own dogs aswell, but you can let us know if that makes you nervous.

The café closes at 8 o'clock and we normally go to a pub nearby. Those who don't drink alcohol are of course welcome to join us in the pub anyway.

If you have any questions please do not hesitate and send an PM to Zxo here at Darkside. You can also join our group here at Darkside called Unga i Stockholm, https://desires.social/club.php?id=894

If you are attending for the first time look for a big group of young people. You can also contact somebody else attending and ask them to help either if you are nervous or have a hard time finding the location. If you are unsure if you have found the right group of people say the password! (Or tell us you know there is one, they are sometimes difficult to pronounce)

Password: Härbären